I can say with some authority that most of us young men have short attention spans so pleasing and retaining us can be twice a challenge – assuming you don’t just want a one nightstand. Nor is there a generic checklist to attracting one – I won’t insult your intelligence my dear reader by pretending there is; just like women, all men are different. If he doesn’t know the importance of the clitoris, teach him. The quickest and most effective way to please a man of any age is to discover what turns him on and then give it to him. However, once you get a fellow in the throes of passion he will probably stop thinking with his head, so I would recommend asking him about what turns him on when his eyes are shut tight from the sexy kisses you’re giving him or when he’s ready to do anything to keep you from stopping.But speaking as a nineteen year old male, I have a range of sex tips based on what I know we would respond to. As an older woman he may even see you as a teacher of sorts, I implore you to take advantage of this. It’s worth noting that if you’re having a casual, one-off encounter and you’re able to give him exactly what he wants he will most likely be back more.I recommend role plays not only to keep things moving and to discover your partner but so you can discover yourself with your partner.
4) Confidence is key No matter what you see in the mirror, regardless of how insecure you may feel sometimes over your body, he will only see a sexy, mature lady.In the end, I don’t know what will happen with us and if we have a future because we live very far away from each other – but two interesting things happened while dating an Indian man for the second time since moving to Bangalore that have really made me stop and think … First, it was great to realise that not all Indian men are afraid to be with a white, divorced women for fear of what their parents will say.Obviously I haven’t dated much in India, two men isn’t enough to make a truly convincing case on the subject, so my experience level is low.) who I basically fell head-over-heels coo coo for ‘at first sight’ and we started dating.
He felt the same way and for a few weeks we dated, spending every possible moment together getting to know each other.
Faking confidence (just a little) breeds confidence.